Writing the perfect social media fetish profile
Writing a fetish profile is a labour of love for some, a terrifying ordeal for others. On Fetlife you can write entire novels, on Twitter you have less than 150 characters.
So how do you get those words onto the page.
First, be natural. Write what you feel rather than trying to conform to some preordained “winning format”.
Don’t think you have to write something and that’s it. You can rewrite it as often as you want.
Finally, don’t forget few people read profiles. You’re better off investing time in networking, sharing blog posts and being a participant in a community than fretting over a few words on a page.
Go on then, kiss my fucking shoe….
Better be quick though. A few seconds later Sabina lost her balance.
The girl in the rubber catsuit
A small gallery of photographs featuring an Asian fetish model, a latex catsuit and a brick wall.
Maybe it’s time to do some good old fashioned photography
Past few months have been pretty chaotic. A lot of plans fell apart middle of last year and just as I thought I was getting on top of things shit happened again.
It’s time to get back in the studio. But I don’t want to do the same-old. I want to branch out, try something new, do something different.
So I’m going back through my old work, stuff you’ve seen and bits you haven’t. I’ve gone into my past, looked at the people who inspire me and taken a few notes.
Give me a few weeks, then I think I’ll be ready to come back out into the world with camera in hand and model at the ready.
Fakes and flakes and swipe right profiles
The pressure to stand out in an age of "swipe right" has led many to use old, heavily photoshopped or even fake profile photos.
Her hands are tied
Ebony model Josie has her hands tied in a simple bondage portrait photograph.
You don’t need to find a “mistress” to indulge your fetishes
Having a fetish doesn't mean you have to be alone. Nor does hiring a sex worker mean you have to go with a professional dominatrix.
This has been my avatar on Fetlife for ages. Surprised I’d not shared it here before.
This is a tale of betrayal
A woman claimed to be barren and asked for unprotected sex. Turned out she was trying to trick me into becoming the father of her child.
A profound observation from my daughter
“If feminists keep telling me to stop watching porn we’re breaking up.”
She realised she’d said it out loud and blushed.
I’m proud of my daughter.
I considered doing a male photoshoot.
Posts tentative casting call.
Opens first half dozen emails.
Deletes casting calls.
Goes and has shower in bleach.
Don’t let someone else’s writing upset your kinky Mental Health
Wrapping yourself up in knots over the latest writing about your fetish isn't good for your mental health. Relax. Unwind. Enjoy it for what it is.