Dominants are supposed to be uber confident and completely in control: only we have limits too. Sometimes we’re not quite sure where they are, but they exist.
They can be emotional; perhaps a fear of hurting someone we love more than they can bear or a trigger for our reaction.
They may be physical.
Sometimes they’re about our competence because believe it or not sometimes we’re doing things for the first time and aren’t 100 per cent sure of what we’re doing.
Trying to “tough it out” and be the bad-ass isn’t the best thing to do as a limit rushes our way.
Instead we need to have the confidence to pause, acknowledge the “I’m hitting a limit” feeling and step back. Take a moment to collect our thoughts and check ourselves.
Because no matter how strong we thing we are, we prove ourselves stronger as dominants when we acknowledge our limits and deal with them before they affect our relationship with our submissives.
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