Finding your balance

I guess some people might find a BDSM relationship intimidating. The idea of 24/7 submission might be overwhelming. Also there’s that “fantasy” of there always being the “threat” of punishment, or constantly wearing leather etc.

Truth is, for me at least, while there is the undercurrent of D/s, Tinky and I are probably like most couples. Sometimes we watch films, go shopping, visit historic monuments and do things “normal” couples do.


Because BDSM is a part of our relationship but not THE relationship. Balance is key and you need to find yours. If that’s an occasional Sunday afternoon then don’t think you’re not doing it “right”. BDSM is to enjoy, not fret over.

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About Razz

I'm a creative dominant type with a love of BDSM and fetishism. This blog is an outlet, so don't take anything you see or read too seriously.