Whenever I see someone float past on Social Media bemoaning the loss of a relationship I feel a tinge of sadness for them. Dating is hard at the best of times, but when you enjoy something as “alternative” as BDSM it can be harder.
Not only do we have the usual dating nonsense, we have the additional layer of our sexuality to contend with. How do we find people who understand our need for submission or domination? How do we avoid the abusers and people who assume being into BDSM = we’re sick and twisted / an easy lay?
The end of a relationship in BDSM land can seem tough, but I implore you to hold on and try to stay positive. New partners can surface and will be found, it just takes time and patience. And in the meantime know there are some of us out here rooting for you and hoping you find happiness.
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