Sometimes it’s OK to “be a bit vanilla”

Sometimes it’s OK to think, “I don’t want to do this whole D/s thing at the moment.” It’s perfectly fine to say, “For now I just want to have a bit of a vanilla life.”

You shouldn’t feel guilty of like you’re betraying some deeper self. These things happen and they are perfectly normal.

Don’t worry.

Don’t think “it’s a phase” or try and “recapture the magic.”

Just relax and let it all come back when it’s good and ready.

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