Online domination: a convenient, thrilling form of BDSM

Online domination: a convenient, thrilling form of BDSM

What’s more rewarding? Kneeling in front of your Master or Mistress as they prepare to administer a punishment, or kneeling in front of a computer screen as they instruct you on how you will humiliate yourself?

From Financial Domination to email Training, Online Domination has exploded in recent years. Improvements in technology and the need for instant satisfaction has fueled its growth. Distance BDSM is big business and an invaluable tool in the hands of skilled practitioners. But is interacting with a Dominant on a computer screen or over the phone as exciting as meeting them in person?

Why submit online?

Undoubtedly there are those who find it rewarding. They enjoy the thrill of reading email instructions, receiving texts at awkward moments or performing submissive acts on a webcam. They find the thrill of a Dominant being able to interject into their day exciting. The convenience of being able to find satisfaction without planning trips compelling. Variety lets them connect with someone they find “attractive” regardless of where they are rather than being connected to a limited local market.

Being able to live in a fantasy without the awkwardness of having to perform the deed can also appeal. A surprising number of online “slaves” receive instructions to refrain from masturbation, wear specific clothes or “pimp themselves out” that are never carried out. Instead, they play the part, placing themselves in a fantasy space without the need to go through with the deed. In some ways this is far safer for them psychologically as the fantasy can remain intact without having to confront the reality.

There are those who take it as seriously as they would a real-time relationship. Their encounters with their Master or Mistress on cam or phone are as intense and serious as any in a dungeon might be.

The online Dominant

On the Dominant side of the equation, attitudes to online domination vary. Some will offer it, and do it very well, others less so. As part of a complete offering, it offers the Dominant the opportunity to interact with and control their submissives in a far more engaging way than once every couple of months in a dungeon that the offline world seems to thrive on.

Give it a try. You might like it

If someone is interested in online domination, then my suggestion would be to pick a channel and experiment with it for a while. Find out what works for you, what style seems to suit you and how it fits into your BDSM lifestyle or interests. Once you’ve got to understand it, then explore other ways of engaging in online domination.

Not everyone will find interacting over the Internet as rewarding as being face-to-face in the dungeon. For those who do it offers a convenient way to interact more regularly and develop or enhance a D/s relationship.

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About Razz

I'm a creative dominant type with a love of BDSM and fetishism. This blog is an outlet, so don't take anything you see or read too seriously.

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