Commentary on aspects of the BDSM scene
What the sexting encounter between a Minister and a 16 year old Financial Dominatrix can tell us about child exploitation in BDSM
Commentary, July 2nd, 2018
I admit it – I have a thing for swimsuits. I love one piece swimsuits and how they look on a woman’s body. Like many in a similar place I find I’m naturally drawn towards the Japanese Gravure and AV models. But there was something that popped up a few months ago that got me […]
Commentary, June 29th, 2018
CollarSpace is being absorbed into alt.com. Is this the end of an era for BDSM Dating, or just one website being bought by another
Commentary, June 11th, 2018
Trying to copyright a common usage word has led to a romance author being embroiled in the cockygate affair
Commentary, May 7th, 2018
I trawl Fetlife’s latest writing from time to time, as is my wont. I find interesting writing and erotica, sometimes tales that touch the heart. Some I “love”, others I comment on, more than a few I roll my eyes at and move on. A trend of recent weeks has been the “I’m thinking of […]
Commentary, April 27th, 2018
Feet are exposed and vulnerable when your submissive is in a hogtie. Make full use of them.
Commentary, April 2nd, 2018
Slapping a slave across the face is a wonderful experience. The reaction is intense and enjoyable and an essential part of humiliation in BDSM
Commentary, March 24th, 2018
If you're running a paid subscription website you must keep your promises to members.
Commentary, January 14th, 2018
Pinterest has become a haven for sharing illegally downloaded images and videos. Is there anything we can do to stop it?
Commentary, December 22nd, 2017
The UK outlaws extreme pornography. Problem is a lot of BDSM is covered by the definition.
Commentary, November 22nd, 2017
A random discussion about work uniforms draws me into a debate about yoga pants, shapely bottoms and the right to be attractive
Commentary, October 25th, 2017
Apologies to what’s left of my regular readers. A few disasters at home have prevented me from updating the blog as often as I’d like. I’ve also hit a bit of a roadblock on my photography! My original plan had been to move to another country at the end of the year, only circumstances are […]
Commentary, September 13th, 2017
It transpires a Reddit user has been merrily uploading webcam porn to Amazon’s cloud. The user claims he was testing their “unlimited storage” claim and given it would take a fair few years to watch it all, I’m guessing that’s not an unreasonable assumption. The scripts he used are now out in the wild, so […]
Commentary, August 26th, 2017
To be honest I’ve been pondering what to do next. Some changes are coming to UK law that’s going to make it a bit harder and more expensive to run the blog. For the moment at least I’ve pretty much given up on fetish photography on account of becoming bored with it (again). There are […]
Commentary, July 22nd, 2017
A few days ago I posted about people being dicks on Google+. Here’s the follow up to the thread. I guess some people never learn…
Commentary, June 19th, 2017
I abhor racism, yet race play (which uses the dynamics of racism as part of BDSM) is fascinating and enjoyable. So should I continue to write for the niche?
Commentary, May 16th, 2017
Yes. Yes I do. Thanks for pointing that out. Because it wasn’t like I was paying attention to said individual. I’d not noticed them. I wasn’t even aware they existed. Now I do. Not because they’ve a spiffing personality and a wonderful taste in floral dresses that’s immediately attracted me to them and made me […]
Commentary, April 30th, 2017
What would you do if you worshipped a woman so completely she told you to end your marriage?
Training her White Slave is a tale of BDSM that focuses heavily on race play, sadism and humiliation. It's not for the faint hearted or easily offended.
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