Commentary on aspects of the BDSM scene
A random discussion about work uniforms draws me into a debate about yoga pants, shapely bottoms and the right to be attractive
Commentary, October 25th, 2017
Apologies to what’s left of my regular readers. A few disasters at home have prevented me from updating the blog as often as I’d like. I’ve also hit a bit of a roadblock on my photography! My original plan had been to move to another country at the end of the year, only circumstances are […]
Commentary, September 13th, 2017
It transpires a Reddit user has been merrily uploading webcam porn to Amazon’s cloud. The user claims he was testing their “unlimited storage” claim and given it would take a fair few years to watch it all, I’m guessing that’s not an unreasonable assumption. The scripts he used are now out in the wild, so […]
Commentary, August 26th, 2017
To be honest I’ve been pondering what to do next. Some changes are coming to UK law that’s going to make it a bit harder and more expensive to run the blog. For the moment at least I’ve pretty much given up on fetish photography on account of becoming bored with it (again). There are […]
Commentary, July 22nd, 2017
A few days ago I posted about people being dicks on Google+. Here’s the follow up to the thread. I guess some people never learn…
Commentary, June 19th, 2017
I abhor racism, yet race play (which uses the dynamics of racism as part of BDSM) is fascinating and enjoyable. So should I continue to write for the niche?
Commentary, May 16th, 2017
Yes. Yes I do. Thanks for pointing that out. Because it wasn’t like I was paying attention to said individual. I’d not noticed them. I wasn’t even aware they existed. Now I do. Not because they’ve a spiffing personality and a wonderful taste in floral dresses that’s immediately attracted me to them and made me […]
Commentary, April 30th, 2017
Seen on a Fetlife profile… “Please note that not all the people in my photos are into bdsm or part of the community … Please respect their privacy by not sharing my photos” Or how about YOU respect their privacy by not posting them in the first place?
Commentary, April 23rd, 2017
Occasionally I get messages from well meaning individuals informing me my bondage is wrong. I’ve tied the wrong style of body harness or used the wrong knot, I’m reliably informed. The model would look better if she were tied “this way” rather than “that”. I could get upset by these messages and see them as […]
Commentary, April 8th, 2017
Yes, I am dominant towards my partner and it’s always me who does the tying. I’m constantly thinking up new ways of tormenting and torturing her in entirely pleasurable and consensual ways as dominants do. When we eventually get round to playing again I have no doubt it will be her bound, gagged and begging […]
Commentary, March 17th, 2017
I saw “Goddess” written as a single word comment on an image that’s an OK-ish selfie and not really fetish at all. The lady who was posing in front of the mirror with phone in hand identified as submissive. The gentleman who made the comment identified as submissive. I think the comment says a lot […]
Commentary, January 25th, 2017
There’s an unpleasant wind blowing through the air. It’s a wind that seems hell bent on undoing the past decade or more of progress in bringing together diverse sexualities and starting the process of building respect. It’s taken the dream of Martin Luther King, that a person should be judged by the quality of their […]
Commentary, January 21st, 2017
I’ve seen a few posts over the past weeks expressing concern at the growing negativity inside the fetish community and particularly within FetLife. It does seem there’s a groundswell of people disapproving of kinks because they don’t share them, or being willing to express less “liberal” views. Some have pointed to the fact fetishism has become […]
Commentary, January 8th, 2017
I get it, HM Government. I really do. John Nicholson brought forward a private members bill to Parliament that would have granted a blanket pardon to about 50,000 people convicted of being gay. You had concerns the bill might accidentally result in some people being pardoned when their crimes were a bit more than being […]
Commentary, October 22nd, 2016
I don’t know why or how, but Twitter has been getting really shitty of late. It’s been building up for a while, but it seems like the polarisation of our viewpoints into complete, blinding binary have reached their pinnacle. There’s no longer space for discussion or debate. Polite disagreement is not allowed. Threats of violence, […]
Commentary, October 15th, 2016
One of the things that annoys me about history is how we tend to judge the past on the standards we have today. We condemn so easily by applying tests we would use now on events that took place when different societal norms applied. For a historical character from the seventeenth century that’s bad enough, […]
Commentary, October 12th, 2016
“The only reason people value traffic is that it can convert to sales or ad revenue.” Not entirely true. I run a website. It’s pure vanity. The reason it exists is to give me an outlet for a part of me that needs it. That’s why I spend too much time writing and paying models […]
Commentary, October 7th, 2016
What would you do if you worshipped a woman so completely she told you to end your marriage?
John has submitted to Chloe, but as he commits to becoming her white slave he has one last task to prove himself. He has to confess everything to his wife - and she wants details.
Training her White Slave is a tale of BDSM that focuses heavily on race play, sadism and humiliation. It's not for the faint hearted or easily offended.
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