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Commentary on aspects of the BDSM scene

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Is your fantasy cheating on your lover?

A fantasy is a deeply personal affair. Is it right to think of them as cheating when someone other than your partner stars?

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Should I have greater diversity in my fetish photography?

Society is asking questions about diversity and representation. Should that extend to a humble fetish photographer?

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Mainstream latex: can we keep it for the rubber fetish fans?

While celebs and music videos feature latex, it has never been mainstream fashion. Maybe the links to fetish is what keeps it special.

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PornHub and Mastercard: a battle for our sextertainment

As Mastercard and Visa crack down on Pornhub, the question has to be asked: who will be next?

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The shop where my fetish grew up

My first fetish clothes didn’t come from a sex shop. They were bought from an elderly lady in the town keeping a store open as something to do

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Confession: I have a fetish for Black Women.

Fetishes are complex, personal affairs that can seem contradictory and at odds with our public persona. Which is why they call it a fetish.

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Apologies

An apology to my regular readers for not updating the blog as often as I should.

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Boobs!

A neighbour complained about my newly acquired habit. After some consideration, I adjusted my behaviour.

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Wear a fucking mask

Masks are seen by some as an instrument of oppression. Stop dicking about and take a few words of advice from a gas mask fetishist.

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Having a week off

Lockdown has finally won. A lack of motivation, stiffled creativity and general boredom has had the better of me. Time for a break.

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We need to talk about consent in BDSM

Since BDSM went mainstream the importance of safe, sane and consensual has been lost. We need to reopen the conversation about consent.

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Is this just exploiting Coronavirus for profit?

Using the coronavirus to advertise your fetish site is poor taste at best.

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