Lifestyle

Articles on the BDSM lifestyle, from finding partners to the intimacy of play.

What do you do with your massive collection of BDSM gear when a new partner enters your life? Keep it and play with it, or start afresh?

Lifestyle, September 19th, 2018

29 tips for dominants in the BDSM dating scene

The world of BDSM dating is fraught with problems. These tips might help you find the right submissive or playmate

Lifestyle, August 22nd, 2018

The joy of cock and ball torture

A man's genitals exist outside the body for a reason: to create a vulnerability that the skilful dominant can use to their advantage.

Lifestyle, August 21st, 2018

Why safe words are an important part of BDSM

The safe word is an important part of BDSM safety. What do you do when a partner says theirs?

Lifestyle, July 18th, 2018

Outtakes are important in a shoot

Never take life too seriously. Always have outtakes ready.

Lifestyle, July 10th, 2018

My return to the studio

After two years away, I decided to return to the studio to shoot some new fetish photography.

Lifestyle, June 3rd, 2018

Introducing a submissive to chastity

Chastity is a rewarding way of bringing your submissive closer to you. But how do you get started and what are the downsides?

Lifestyle, May 18th, 2018

Master or slave? What role do I play as a fetishist?

A lot of the time the roles in BDSM aren't as binary you might think. Instead we tend to float between them. One day a Master, the next a slave.

Lifestyle, April 22nd, 2018

I got called a “wog lover”

I should not be surprised to be called something racist. It seems to be the world is moving, even in liberal BDSM circles.

Lifestyle, March 10th, 2018

Unintended long-term chastity

A bout of manflu and a visit to Africa conspired to create a prolonged period of chastity.

Lifestyle, February 22nd, 2018

Has social media made our fetishes easier to live with?

The rise of Facebook, Twitter and social media has made having a fetish much easier to live with. Is this a good thing for society?

Lifestyle, January 22nd, 2018

Things to do in 2018

After a disappointing 2017, I've decided 2018 will be more creative and I'll be looking for ways to cover my costs so I can do more shoots more often.

Lifestyle, December 30th, 2017

I pull the strangest faces when I cum…

No, seriously. Absolute crackers. Proper Gurning championship contenders. Then again, what did you expect? The carefully posed intense look of a porn star trying not to distract from the woman he’s fucking?

Lifestyle, November 16th, 2017

I was a teenage sex slave

In my late teens I became a sex slave to a professional Mistress. But was it really the dream come true of a young rubber fetishist?

Lifestyle, October 11th, 2017

And the fuckwittery continues

A few days ago I posted about people being dicks on Google+. Here’s the follow up to the thread. I guess some people never learn…

Commentary, June 19th, 2017

You’ll never be someone’s Master if you’re a dick on Google+

If you're serious about finding a submissive partner on Google+ throwing random comments about being a master at posts will not work

Lifestyle, June 7th, 2017

Trying out BDSM dating? Here’s 28 tips for being a safe submissive

BDSM dating isn't like it is in vanilla world. It comes charged with sexuality, risks exposure and can leave you hung out to dry. So take care

Lifestyle, June 2nd, 2017

Mommy's Rubber Gimp

He likes to dress up in latex in his bedroom. But when his step-mom finds him it starts a chain of blackmail and domination that leads to becoming her rubber gimp.

Mommy's Rubber Gimp features step-mom/step-son domination, total rubber enclosure and scenes of sadomasochism.

Available now on Amazon Kindle

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