Articles on the BDSM lifestyle, from finding partners to the intimacy of play.
The safe word is an important part of BDSM safety. What do you do when a partner says theirs?
Lifestyle, July 18th, 2018
Never take life too seriously. Always have outtakes ready.
Lifestyle, July 10th, 2018
After two years away, I decided to return to the studio to shoot some new fetish photography.
Lifestyle, June 3rd, 2018
Chastity is a rewarding way of bringing your submissive closer to you. But how do you get started and what are the downsides?
Lifestyle, May 18th, 2018
A lot of the time the roles in BDSM aren't as binary you might think. Instead we tend to float between them. One day a Master, the next a slave.
Lifestyle, April 22nd, 2018
I should not be surprised to be called something racist. It seems to be the world is moving, even in liberal BDSM circles.
Lifestyle, March 10th, 2018
A bout of manflu and a visit to Africa conspired to create a prolonged period of chastity.
Lifestyle, February 22nd, 2018
The rise of Facebook, Twitter and social media has made having a fetish much easier to live with. Is this a good thing for society?
Lifestyle, January 22nd, 2018
After a disappointing 2017, I've decided 2018 will be more creative and I'll be looking for ways to cover my costs so I can do more shoots more often.
Lifestyle, December 30th, 2017
No, seriously. Absolute crackers. Proper Gurning championship contenders. Then again, what did you expect? The carefully posed intense look of a porn star trying not to distract from the woman he’s fucking?
Lifestyle, November 16th, 2017
In my late teens I became a sex slave to a professional Mistress. But was it really the dream come true of a young rubber fetishist?
Lifestyle, October 11th, 2017
A few days ago I posted about people being dicks on Google+. Here’s the follow up to the thread. I guess some people never learn…
Commentary, June 19th, 2017
If you're serious about finding a submissive partner on Google+ throwing random comments about being a master at posts will not work
Lifestyle, June 7th, 2017
BDSM dating isn't like it is in vanilla world. It comes charged with sexuality, risks exposure and can leave you hung out to dry. So take care
Lifestyle, June 2nd, 2017
It’s a pure hobby for me. Something creative to take my mind off the hassles of a stressful working life. By not asking for money it means I’m free to shoot what I want, when I want and for my own enjoyment. I don’t have to meet a publication schedule, nor worry about whether I’m […]
Lifestyle, May 10th, 2017
Dear Neighbours, There is nothing to be afraid of. I am just a rubberist. It means I get sexually excited by wearing latex and being with people who wear it too. It does not mean I am going to attack your children. Or ritually slaughter your cat. Nor rape you whilst you sleep in your […]
Lifestyle, March 4th, 2017
What did he expect when she took him on holiday? He's a white slave and she's the Black Mistress he worships.
No Holiday for a White Slave is a tale of BDSM that focuses heavily on race play, sadism and humiliation. It's not for the faint hearted or easily offended.
Available now on Amazon Kindle