Articles on the BDSM lifestyle, from finding partners to the intimacy of play.
In 2019 I want my photography to be more about documenting the love between BDSM couples and less about models posing.
Lifestyle, December 1st, 2018
A sex doll can be used for more than masturbation. Mine is used to perfect my ties for bondage shoots
Lifestyle, November 21st, 2018
If your partner is unable to say a safe word you need to find a different way to signal. Here’s a few ideas… click their fingers knock their knees together hold a sponge ball and drop it when it gets too much three short grunts, three long ones. As long as it isn’t something they’d […]
Lifestyle, October 24th, 2018
What do you do with your massive collection of BDSM gear when a new partner enters your life? Keep it and play with it, or start afresh?
Lifestyle, September 19th, 2018
The world of BDSM dating is fraught with problems. These tips might help you find the right submissive or playmate
Lifestyle, August 22nd, 2018
A man's genitals exist outside the body for a reason: to create a vulnerability that the skilful dominant can use to their advantage.
Lifestyle, August 21st, 2018
The safe word is an important part of BDSM safety. What do you do when a partner says theirs?
Lifestyle, July 18th, 2018
Never take life too seriously. Always have outtakes ready.
Lifestyle, July 10th, 2018
After two years away, I decided to return to the studio to shoot some new fetish photography.
Lifestyle, June 3rd, 2018
Chastity is a rewarding way of bringing your submissive closer to you. But how do you get started and what are the downsides?
Lifestyle, May 18th, 2018
A lot of the time the roles in BDSM aren't as binary you might think. Instead we tend to float between them. One day a Master, the next a slave.
Lifestyle, April 22nd, 2018
I should not be surprised to be called something racist. It seems to be the world is moving, even in liberal BDSM circles.
Lifestyle, March 10th, 2018
A bout of manflu and a visit to Africa conspired to create a prolonged period of chastity.
Lifestyle, February 22nd, 2018
The rise of Facebook, Twitter and social media has made having a fetish much easier to live with. Is this a good thing for society?
Lifestyle, January 22nd, 2018
After a disappointing 2017, I've decided 2018 will be more creative and I'll be looking for ways to cover my costs so I can do more shoots more often.
Lifestyle, December 30th, 2017
No, seriously. Absolute crackers. Proper Gurning championship contenders. Then again, what did you expect? The carefully posed intense look of a porn star trying not to distract from the woman he’s fucking?
Lifestyle, November 16th, 2017
What would you do if you worshipped a woman so completely she told you to end your marriage?
Training her White Slave is a tale of BDSM that focuses heavily on race play, sadism and humiliation. It's not for the faint hearted or easily offended.
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