Lifestyle

When I need to relax I fire up a second monitor, load a video of a woman in latex walking the streets, and the world becomes a better place

Calls for kinky gimps to hide away at Pride stink of hypocrisy. Isn’t this the same behaviour mainstream LGBTQ+ created it to protest?

Sometimes having a rubber fetish can seem like too much hassle. Or maybe this is just another quarantine fueled dip.

As England and much of Europe enters a second lockdown, what lessons can a kinky, self-isolated fetishist offer from the first?

As the world of Twitter becomes increasingly fraught, I’ve found a little piece of calm where I can preserve my mental health.

My gas mask has been with me for most of my rubberist adventures. Sadly all good things have to end.

Unsolicited messages setting out what the sender would like to do to you are a part of the BDSM dating scene. Replying is pointless. Blocking is better.

Sack time is a way I can release stress. Tinky plays the role of service top – and for an hour or so I put complete trust in her in a way only a man could.

Zentai is a fetish where a person covers themselves entirely in spandex. It’s a liberating fetish, and easier than total latex enclosure or heavy rubber.

During the lockdown a woman in a flat opposite took to pressing her breasts against her window. Maybe she was craving the subtle interactions lockdown stole

Sometimes we use our fetishes as a way of protecting ourselves from the outside world. Just remember to lift your visor from time to time.

Looking for a “real dominant” is a fool’s errand. Stop worrying about what a dominant looks like and start focusing on what submission means to you.