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Lifestyle

Articles on the BDSM lifestyle, from finding partners to the intimacy of play.

My photography in 2019

In 2019 I want my photography to be more about documenting the love between BDSM couples and less about models posing.

Lifestyle, December 1st, 2018

I use a sex doll

A sex doll can be used for more than masturbation. Mine is used to perfect my ties for bondage shoots

Lifestyle, November 21st, 2018

Safe words are not always practical

If your partner is unable to say a safe word you need to find a different way to signal. Here’s a few ideas… click their fingers knock their knees together hold a sponge ball and drop it when it gets too much three short grunts, three long ones. As long as it isn’t something they’d […]

Lifestyle, October 24th, 2018

New gear for a new submissive

What do you do with your massive collection of BDSM gear when a new partner enters your life? Keep it and play with it, or start afresh?

Lifestyle, September 19th, 2018

29 tips for dominants in the BDSM dating scene

The world of BDSM dating is fraught with problems. These tips might help you find the right submissive or playmate

Lifestyle, August 22nd, 2018

The joy of cock and ball torture

A man's genitals exist outside the body for a reason: to create a vulnerability that the skilful dominant can use to their advantage.

Lifestyle, August 21st, 2018

Why safe words are an important part of BDSM

The safe word is an important part of BDSM safety. What do you do when a partner says theirs?

Lifestyle, July 18th, 2018

Outtakes are important in a shoot

Never take life too seriously. Always have outtakes ready.

Lifestyle, July 10th, 2018

My return to the studio

After two years away, I decided to return to the studio to shoot some new fetish photography.

Lifestyle, June 3rd, 2018

Introducing a submissive to chastity

Chastity is a rewarding way of bringing your submissive closer to you. But how do you get started and what are the downsides?

Lifestyle, May 18th, 2018

Master or slave? What role do I play as a fetishist?

A lot of the time the roles in BDSM aren't as binary you might think. Instead we tend to float between them. One day a Master, the next a slave.

Lifestyle, April 22nd, 2018

I got called a “wog lover”

I should not be surprised to be called something racist. It seems to be the world is moving, even in liberal BDSM circles.

Lifestyle, March 10th, 2018

Unintended long-term chastity

A bout of manflu and a visit to Africa conspired to create a prolonged period of chastity.

Lifestyle, February 22nd, 2018

Has social media made our fetishes easier to live with?

The rise of Facebook, Twitter and social media has made having a fetish much easier to live with. Is this a good thing for society?

Lifestyle, January 22nd, 2018

Things to do in 2018

After a disappointing 2017, I've decided 2018 will be more creative and I'll be looking for ways to cover my costs so I can do more shoots more often.

Lifestyle, December 30th, 2017

I pull the strangest faces when I cum…

No, seriously. Absolute crackers. Proper Gurning championship contenders. Then again, what did you expect? The carefully posed intense look of a porn star trying not to distract from the woman he’s fucking?

Lifestyle, November 16th, 2017

I was a teenage sex slave

In my late teens I became a sex slave to a professional Mistress. But was it really the dream come true of a young rubber fetishist?

Lifestyle, October 11th, 2017

Training Her White Slave

What would you do if you worshipped a woman so completely she told you to end your marriage?

Training her White Slave is a tale of BDSM that focuses heavily on race play, sadism and humiliation. It's not for the faint hearted or easily offended.

Available now on Amazon Kindle

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