A voice from the past needs help
Someone I once knew wanted to meet up again for "old times sake". My response was as much about needing to care for my own wellbeing as concerns about hers
Updating the website (again)
The site design has been refreshed again. Find out what I've done, why and how I'm keeping an eye on the UK "porn ban".
A slave with no limits?
Slaves will sometimes claim they have "no limits". When you encounter this in BDSM approach with caution. It's a potentially harmful situation.
My photography in 2019
I want to change the way I photograph. Sure, I’ll work with models. Maybe more than I did in ’18.
Only I want to spend less time in the studio, more time working with “real” people.
I want to document.
I want to capture couples enjoying their fetish.
Mistresses rewarding their slaves.
Masters binding their submissives.
Love deserves to be documented and shared, particularly when it is seen as subversive and damaging by a moral minority who do not understand the complexities of human nature.
I use a sex doll
No, really. I have an inflatable sex doll.
Now, before I get accused of over sharing, let me explain WHY I have an inflatable sex doll…
I practice bondage on it.
Before I walk into a studio I will practice on the sex doll to make sure my ties are right, I know which bit of rope is going where and that I’m not putting too much pressure on joints and muscles.
Which I know sounds daft, but it is just how damned committed I am to taking good shots!
New gear for a new submissive
Your huge collection of BDSM gear might not be as attractive to a new partner as you thought. A new collection might be needed for a new relationship.
29 tips for dominants in the BDSM dating scene
If you identify as dominant and are wondering where all the submissives are, try these BDSM dating tips to find genuine submissive men and women.
The joy of cock and ball torture
Tormenting a man's genitals can be rewarding and highly enjoyable. Don't rely on pain for your CBT - there are other ways of hurting them.
Why safe words are an important part of BDSM
Safewords are an important part of BDSM. When your submissive calls theirs, there is no need to panic. Just work through the issue and make her feel safe.
Outtakes are important in a shoot
Never take life too seriously. Always have time for some fun, laughter and the occasional outtake. You'll live a lot longer.
My return to the studio
A short essay on what drove me to restart my bondage photography and get back into the studio after more than a year on hiatus.
Introducing a submissive to chastity
How controlling your submissive's sexual needs and preventing them from satisfying them can add to your pleasure as in a BDSM relationship