Outtakes are important in a shoot
Never take life too seriously. Always have space in your life for some fun, laughter and the odd outtake.
My return to the studio
It’s been two years since I last set foot inside a studio. A couple of bad shoots pushed me away and I reached that point where I realised it wasn’t fun any longer. Fetish photography is my hobby, a way of giving shape to creative urges and when it started to feel like work it […]
Introducing a submissive to chastity
Abstinence from sex has long been the preserve of the devout. Intended to symbolise purity, chastity has been used by religious orders for millennia to demonstrate how their followers are above sin. Yet for chastity players in the BDSM community it has come to be a means of control and punishment as much as one […]
Master or slave? What role do I play as a fetishist?
I’d say 95% of the time I’m dominant with a fetishistic hedonist streak laced with sadism. I love seeing how Tinky reacts to bondage and stimulation, whether it’s physical torment or verbal humiliation. Having her tied or gagged or helpless is such a powerful and enjoyable experience. However. There are times when I want to […]
I got called a “wog lover”
I met her online and we chatted and found we had things in common. I showed her round London and helped her go shopping for kinky gear. I shifted my weekend with my kids around because I wanted to see if this was a friendship. I invited her into my home, fed her, showed her […]
Unintended long-term chastity
I wrote this piece a fair while ago when I was dating a woman who became my Mistress for a while. I thought I’d share it again as inspiration to all those who plan on playing chastity, regardless of which side you want to be. In the past I’ve only played with chastity within […]
Has social media made our fetishes easier to live with?
When I first started exploring my fetishes the world was a different place. The only way of connecting with others who might share my interests was via the small ads in the back of “gentleman’s magazines” or via cryptic messages planted in a “lonely hearts” column. When the Internet came along there were secret backwaters […]
Things to do in 2018
This past year has been a bit flat on the kinky front. Of course Tinky and I played a fair bit and we continued to add to our répertoire of kinky games and interests. It just wasn’t very creative. There are numerous reasons for this. I was disenchanted by a couple of disappointing shoots and […]
I pull the strangest faces when I cum…
No, seriously. Absolute crackers. Proper Gurning championship contenders. Then again, what did you expect? The carefully posed intense look of a porn star trying not to distract from the woman he’s fucking?
I was a teenage sex slave
Once upon a time I was young, attractive and dedicated to discovering what life as a submissive would mean. My rubber fetish was in full bloom and I fixated with the content of magazines like Cruella, Shiny and Harmony. The tales of BDSM and fetishism they spun had a profound impact on me and they […]
And the fuckwittery continues
A few days ago I posted about people being dicks on Google+. Here’s the follow up to the thread. I guess some people never learn…
You’ll never be someone’s Master if you’re a dick on Google+
It took barely 10 minutes. I posted in one of the bondage communities on Google+. It was a link to a gallery of Turkish in bondage. In just under 10 minutes 2 comments had appeared. “Nice and bdsm is my way of life. Im a master in need of a sub for my wife and […]