Choose, don’t fall
Choose a fetish.
Choose a partner.
Don’t just fall into something because they happen to be there.
My own bitter experience of BDSM and mental health
The fact we’re talking about and debating mental health issues is a good sign. Too long we’ve brushed them under the carpet. But I know from bitter experience some Mental Health Professionals still see BDSM as an illness that has to be treated. They don’t seem able to comprehend the fact BDSM doesn’t need to be […]
Which fictional character would you play with?
It pops up on forums all over the Geekverse – which fictional character would you have sex with. Or in a BDSM context, which would you dominate or submit to. After some time (and this is purely for fun!) I’ve got my list… I’d take a couple of the 8s from Battlestar Galactica because that […]
Not an ideal photographer profile
This is probably a profile that isn’t going to win fans. If you’re a photographer and you’re hoping to connect on social media with models it’s best to keep it professional.
“Dad, what’s all this stuff?”
Prompted by a post on a Fetlife Forum, the question was “how do you tell your daughter what all that rubberwear is in the wardrobe.” One of my twins went hunting for a laptop charger and discovered a wardrobe full of bondage gear and latex. Immediate reaction was “oh shit” from her, followed by “never mention […]
The beautiful Claw, taken during one of our first photoshoots. Wherever you are I hope you are well.
Who decides what inappropriate content is?
OK, so maybe googling “Japanese school uniform bondage” wasn’t the best idea I’d had. I needed a bit of inspiration (no, really) for a short story I was working on and turned to the world’s favourite search engine. Needless to say a veritable cornucopia of oriental ladies in varying scenes of distress and discomfort floated […]
Be wary of the dominant who emails first
If you approach a Dom/me then being asked for a tribute before conversations go further is cool.
But if a Dom/me pops up out of nowhere and starts demanding cash then you have every right to decline, disengage and look elsewhere.
Because being submissive doesn’t mean you have to be walked over or taken advantage of by everyone calling themselves “Mistress” or “Sir”
Challenging myself as a photographer
So I’ve decided to stretch myself again…. 8 hours in a studio. A studio I’ve never worked in before. Shooting 3 models. None of whom I’ve worked with before. Wish me luck!
I dream of abuse and torture. Is there something wrong with me?
Sometimes horrible events in the media can trigger our BDSM fantasies. Does this make us bad people, or just normal human beings with a sexuality?
An ode to dick pics
Thank you for your pic.
Yes, you have a dick.
It is, indeed, quite small.
Perhaps next time you could just not bother.
Truck Stop Negotiation
Master and Mistress visit a truckstop. With them is a slave all too willing to be pimped to the first truck driver. Flash BDSM fiction.