Boring relationship stuff : make a will
I’ve known quite a few people in the BDSM scene who have lived together but never married: I happen to be in the same boat.
This is a reminder that just living together doesn’t mean you’re taking care of your partner. There’s no concept of a “common law wife” in UK law, so if you don’t make a will there could be problems when it comes to sorting out the estate.
I know it’s really plain and boring, but just make sure you’re taking care of your partner.
Turkish : just dicking about
There are points in most of my shoots where law and order breaks down and we start mucking about. Usually it comes about right after I have a photographer failure and forget to turn the camera on or leave the lens cap in place. No idea what kicked this off, but by the time I […]
Photoshoots I want to do in 2016
I have a few ideas for photoshoots I want to do in 2016. The current list stands as follows: bondage in the City of London latex wear in the countryside a male / female bondage and D/s set I’d also like to shoot some couples at play in their own environment.
#Bound2You – some bondage fun on St Valentine’s day
It was an idea that came from T is for Tiny on Twitter : share images that have red feature in them somewhere. Always someone to join in with such silliness, I decided to queue about a half dozen images from my own collection. Included in them is this one from Odette Flaur. You might […]
Fun in the studio with Franka
Franka turned out to be quite flexible. For a few minutes the studio descended into chaos as she twisted, turned and frequently broke into laughter. They’re not fetish images, but they are fun!
Bondage from which she cannot escape
Her fingers stretched around the knot, the first attempt slipping off the rope, the second finding purchase. She strained, arching her back a little more, creating enough slack for her to get a proper grip. It hurt, almost as much as the rope biting into her wrists, but it was worth it. It had to […]
Refreshing honesty in the contact centre
I think anthropologists should study contact centres. They’re a microcosm of repressed carnal desire and extreme political correctness. The discussions and attitudes seem entirely inappropriate for any other setting, but bring together a bunch of people doing shit jobs and political correctness is replaced with a refreshingly honest, filter free view of the world. Of course, […]
Fiona : black and white
Taken at my last shoot with Fiona, she stands patiently with her hands tied behind her back.
“For a Muslim girl”
It started simply enough. A male colleague commented on one of the young women in the contact centre … “She’s a pretty girl,” he started. “for a,” was the next part of the sentence, which started to raise my eyebrows. He might as well have said “but”. “Muslim girl!” was the clincher. My head may […]
You get to fuck your models? How lucky are you?
Yes, I’ve had another eMail off the website from someone who seems to think that being a photographer means I get to have sex with every girl ever to appear in front of my lens. And looking for tips. Oh, please! Let’s get this straight … I NEVER HAVE SEX WITH MY MODELS. The moment […]
Spent a couple of hours uploading old images
After I trashed the blog in a major “I just need some space” moment I decided to upload some of the old ones to fill a bit of space and help the old search engine rankings a bit. I realised the way I’d built the blog made this a bit of a nightmare. It picks […]
Dark Bounty : portrait
A moody portrait of bondage model and sometimes Dominatrix Dark Bounty. A wonderful, stunning model I had the pleasure of working with. You can see more of her in the Dark Bounty gallery.