As England and much of Europe enters a second lockdown, what lessons can a kinky, self-isolated fetishist offer from the first?

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Unsolicited messages setting out what the sender would like to do to you are a part of the BDSM dating scene. Replying is pointless. Blocking is better.

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Sack time is a way I can release stress. Tinky plays the role of service top - and for an hour or so I put complete trust in her in a way only a man could.

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Since BDSM went mainstream the importance of safe, sane and consensual has been lost. We need to reopen the conversation about consent.

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Looking for a "real dominant" is a fool's errand. Stop worrying about what a dominant looks like and start focusing on what submission means to you.

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Tinky had cancer and it had a profound effect on our kinky relationship. We're finding a way back to BDSM because we both want to be whole again.

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You don't have to visit a Dominatrix in person to enjoy submission. Many Masters and Mistresses offer online domination for the virtual submissive.

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Fetishists looking for a partner sometimes put up lists of likes and dislikes. This rarely works. Far better to start engaging with people on Social Media

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If you identify as dominant and are wondering where all the submissives are, try these BDSM dating tips to find genuine submissive men and women.

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Safewords are an important part of BDSM. When your submissive calls theirs, there is no need to panic. Just work through the issue and make her feel safe.

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