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Watching women in latex: a way I like to relax

Video screen shot of a woman's bottom as she walks wearing latex catsuit and corset

When I need to relax I fire up a second monitor, load a video of a woman in latex walking the streets, and the world becomes a better place

Lifestyle

How to teach your submissive face fucking

If you want your submissive to swallow ALL of your cock don’t expect them to take it first time. Teaching them to bypass their gag reflex can be fun though.

Update

Wednesday, 21st November 2018

No, really. I have an inflatable sex doll.

Now, before I get accused of over sharing, let me explain WHY I have an inflatable sex doll…

Training the White Boy

Neil likes his women tall, slim and blonde. But when he meets Femi, a small, curvy Nigerian woman, his world is turned upside down.

Available on Kindle

I practice bondage on it.

Before I walk into a studio I will practice on the sex doll to make sure my ties are right, I know which bit of rope is going where and that I’m not putting too much pressure on joints and muscles.

Which I know sounds daft, but it is just how damned committed I am to taking good shots!

Lifestyle

The joy of cock and ball torture

Tormenting a man’s genitals can be rewarding and highly enjoyable. Don’t rely on pain for your CBT – there are other ways of hurting them.

Lifestyle

Bondage 101 (or how to tie your partner up for the first time without anyone getting hurt)

Girl in bikini ties up a teddy bear

If you’re new to bondage and want to tie them up, this is an essential guide for how to approach the subject, discuss safety and enjoy your first games

Available on Kindle