Cancer, kink and trying to find “normal”
Tinky had cancer and it had a profound effect on our kinky relationship. We're finding a way back to BDSM because we both want to be whole again.
Writing the perfect social media fetish profile
Writing a fetish profile is a labour of love for some, a terrifying ordeal for others. On Fetlife you can write entire novels, on Twitter you have less than 150 characters.
So how do you get those words onto the page.
First, be natural. Write what you feel rather than trying to conform to some preordained “winning format”.
Don’t think you have to write something and that’s it. You can rewrite it as often as you want.
Finally, don’t forget few people read profiles. You’re better off investing time in networking, sharing blog posts and being a participant in a community than fretting over a few words on a page.
A slave with no limits?
Slaves will sometimes claim they have "no limits". When you encounter this in BDSM approach with caution. It's a potentially harmful situation.