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You’ll never be someone’s Master if you’re a dick on Social Media

How not to behave on social media

If your plan is to find a Mistress or slave on social media, don’t behave like a dick. A shared sexuality is not enough to overcome this character flaw

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Sunday, 23rd April 2017

Seen on a Fetlife profile…

Please note that not all the people in my photos are into bdsm or part of the community … Please respect their privacy by not sharing my photos”

Training the White Boy

Neil likes his women tall, slim and blonde. But when he meets Femi, a small, curvy Nigerian woman, his world is turned upside down.

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Or how about YOU respect their privacy by not posting them in the first place?

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Monday, 17th April 2017

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Wednesday, 25th January 2017

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Is persecution back on the agenda for the kink community?

A crackdown on the fetish and BDSM communities seems to be happening. PayPal, Tumblr, even Twitter are showing kinky people the door.

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Negativity in the fetish community: why it’s inevitable and I choose to ignore it

The BDSM community is not immune from negativity. It reflects the broader cross-section of society, so trolling and abuse will find its way inside.

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I’ve given up Twitter for a while

I don’t know why or how, but Twitter has been getting really shitty of late. It’s been building up for a while, but it seems like the polarisation of our viewpoints into complete, blinding binary have reached their pinnacle. There’s no longer space for discussion or debate. Polite disagreement is not allowed. Threats of violence, […]

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Here to network (so why not “friends”)?

I asked a model if I could “friend her” on Fetlife so I could keep track of her work. As a photographer (albeit amateur) I like to keep an eye on new images and see what I can learn. No, she replied, because her friend feed gets too crammed. Instead I was pointed at her […]

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“Stop trying to steal my slaves!”

Ebony dominatrix holds her submissive girls head up

In the cut-throat world of Twitter BDSM, a professional dominatrix can take offence when others move in on her slaves. Best not to get to ranting though.

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Can the “dick pic” ever be defended?

Ebony dominatrix holds her submissive girls head up

A photo of someone’s genitals is not a welcome sight first thing in the morning. Before you send one to that girl or guy you fancy – stop!

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Question of the day: should I restart Tumblr?

Ebony dominatrix holds her submissive girls head up

Kinky Twitter is an infuriating place to be. Increasingly it seems to be polarising into grandstanding, political bubbles and trolling. I’ve found myself caught up in it to the point that I took a break from it to get it out of my system, doing nothing more than post pre-scheduled images and erotica. It’s deleted […]

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Tuesday, 9th August 2016

Sometimes my avatar on Fetlife is one of my models. Sometimes they’re smiling. Sometimes they’re tied up. Sometimes, well, just sometimes they’re being them.

This, apparently, means I am female.

No Holiday for a White Slave

Black Mistress Gabriella has taken her white slave on vacation. It'll be anything but a holiday for him.

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My profile says I am male. I explain I’m a photographer and I prefer to include my subjects as my avatar from time to time.

This appears to make me a “fake”.

I know this to be true because I have been told as much.

This was told to me by someone who clicked straight onto one of my photographs, then sent me a lovely message saying how attractive I (she) was and including suggestions for the anatomically impossible.

Still, made me laugh.

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